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Therapy Tools and Activities

Therapy tools and activities are a great addition for adults and children in counselling. This page is helpful for parents and guardians, to see what counselling resources can offer children. Having said that, please do remember there are many therapy tools for all ages. Contact me for further information on the therapy tools available you, whatever your age.

As explained on the Child Counselling page, following a brief discussion about your young child or teenager's concerns, the focus on their counselling journey will be present and forward oriented. Your child's 'here and now' and their future.

There are many therapy tools we can use in child counselling. They include; 

Digital Books and Interactive Tools

These are valuable and engaging tool resources in child counselling and help children in many ways. They offer a versatile and engaging medium for counsellors, parents, and guardians to connect with children and facilitate their emotional growth.

They are like small apps that you can use on your mobile phone, tablet, or computer. They can help children with their worries, anxiety, triggers, coping skills and much more. ​They can be used alongside helpful worksheets and journals, within a counselling relationship or in your home as you go through them with your child. As each child develops differently, the listed age ranges for the tools are just suggestions, and of course, many of the tools are also appropriate for adults, especially the popular meditation and relaxation tools.  

These therapy tools bring stories to life and have an amazing ability to grab children’s attention, keeping them fully focussed and engaged. Storytelling has long been used as a natural method for teaching children important life lessons, skills, values, and coping strategies. 

Digital tools help children to identify and understand emotions. They identify with the characters in the books as they make connections with the challenges the characters are facing, to those similar to their own challenges. This connection provides an opportunity for emotional identification and exploration for children.

Stories provide a safe space for children to share their inner world, they can help to stimulate them to think about, communicate, and express their own thoughts, feelings, and experiences, encouraging them to come up with problem-solving ideas to overcome any obstacles; for the characters in the books, and more importantly for themselves.

Worksheets 

Worksheets are an invaluable tool in child counselling. They teach children healthy skills to cope with all different types of mental health issues, such as dealing with depression, managing anger, calming anxiety, eliminating cognitive distortions, communicating effectively, and many more. They are important teaching tools that can deepen children’s learning, encouraging them to implement their new knowledge into their daily lives, helping them to overcome their issues or concerns.

Therapy worksheets come in many forms. They provide an interactive and structured way for children to engage with therapeutic concepts and develop coping skills. They involve planners, checklists, reward charts etc, to help children to remember and complete tasks. Combining problem-solving activities and questions, they create unique opportunities for active learning of new skills outside of counselling sessions, allowing children to make positive progress towards their mental health goals.

They can help children to understand their thoughts and behaviours, eventually leading to positive change. They are designed to help them explore their emotions, thoughts, and behaviours in a safe and supportive environment. They can help children and adolescents to understand how thoughts, feelings, and actions are connected, allowing them to take an active role in their counselling exploration and development.

They can be used in a therapeutic relationship with a counsellor. They can be tailored to meet the specific needs of each child and provide a structured framework for counselling sessions. They can also be used within the child’s home by parents, guardians, or caregivers to support children in their counselling journey.

 

Journals 

There are many ways to keep a personal journal. It can be a diary, notebook, tablet, laptop etc, it can be whatever you want it to be. There is no wrong way to journal. Journalling is a great therapy activity for adults and children of all ages. Young children especially can gain a lot out of it, particularly if they start in their early years. 

Journalling can be structured with specific topics and objectives, or unstructured and open-ended to process thoughts, explore issues, or record creative self-expression. It provides a safe place where children can express themselves freely and confidentially, it's also a very powerful tool for them to reinforce what they’ve learned in counselling. It helps them to organise their jumbled thoughts, express their confusing emotions and feelings, and reflect on their concerns. Just by writing things down, forces their mind to process and clarify meaning, encouraging deeper understanding of their situation, and looking for opportunities for learning. 

Children develop great critical thinking and problem-solving skills as they reflect on their journalling. It helps them to gain values and understand other perspectives. They make connections between previous and new knowledge and learn from their past experiences and mistakes. They develop coping strategies and build resilience to face difficult challenges in the future by working through problems. 

Emotion suppression is not good for children. Journaling can be a great source of comfort for them as they express their emotions, both positive and negative ones. Expressive writing helps them to process and reflect on difficult emotions, make sense of life events, and understand themselves better. An obvious benefit of journalling is it provides children with an opportunity to practice and improve their creative writing, reading and communication skills. This is particularly beneficial for children who struggle with any of these skills. 

Self-reflection is a major part of journalling. Self-reflection is looking back on what has occurred with the goal of self-evaluation and personal growth. As children grow, so do their characters, journalling promotes self-reflection that helps them develop self-awareness and a deeper connection to themselves. 

As described above, there are many great benefits to keeping a journal. Two other very important benefits are mental health and physical health. Journalling enhances mental wellbeing ​by improving moods, reducing stress, and increasing self-esteem​. Over time, stress reduction results in a healthier immune system​ and fewer physical illnesses. 

All of these therapy tools and activities are often used in conjunction with each other during counselling.

They can help all people to understand issues such as: 

 

  • Addictions, ADHD, Anger, Anxiety

  • Behaviour, Bullying

  • Chore Challenges, Communication, Coping Skills

  • Depression, Divorce

  • Emotions, Empathy 

  • Family, Fears, Feelings, Friendship

  • Goals, Gratitude, Grief

  • Mental Health, Mindfulness

  • Pain Management, PTSD

  • Relationships, Relaxation, Rewards/Consequences

  • Self-compassion, Self-esteem, Sentence Completion, Setting Boundaries, Social Skills, Substance Abuse

  • Thinking Errors, Trauma

  • Values

  • Worry

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